Ever feel like you’re always the safe space for men—but not the one they choose fully? This episode of Reality Inspyrd with @ashleyinspyrz dives deep into the unconscious patterns that keep us stuck in cycles of emotional unavailability, half-love, and energetic burnout. Ashley opens up about her own experiences and the soul-level realizations that came from years of playing the rescuer. You’ll hear the truth about: ✨ Why emotional intimacy can feel safe—but secretly drain you ✨ How early conditioning shapes the partners you attract ✨ The real reason “chemistry” sometimes comes with chaos ✨ What it takes to attract from WHOLENESS, not wounding If you’re done being the healer, the fixer, or the fallback girl… this one’s for you. Come for the realization, stay for the liberation 💥 ⏱ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Welcome to Reality Inspyred 00:12 Are you attracting emotionally unavailable partners? 06:39 When chemistry comes with chaos 16:44 Feeling better, looking better, radiating joy 17:00 What is your energetic signature? 17:11 Bliss, fun, liberation, and transformation 17:19 Seeing the pattern and stepping into your highest self 17:43 What do you truly want in a relationship? 18:02 The gift of holding space and compassion 18:24 You’re not my job — clearing space for true love 18:42 Stepping into divine masculine partnership 18:52 Magnetism of wholeness and true eroticism 19:00 Cultivating fully reciprocal love 19:16 Your magic is your gift — own it 19:29 Pride in choosing differently 19:51 Resetting your baseline and broadcast 20:12 Unconditional love and support 20:26 Shoutout to Mateo 20:40 Formation Energetics — aligning your energy 21:00 Clearing out what no longer serves 21:12 Sponsor: Womanizer Duo2 (womanizer.com) 21:31 The beauty of self-pleasure and self-love 21:55 How to try the Womanizer 22:02 The magic of energy co-creation 22:19 You are perfect and whole — attract from there 22:30 Catching the pattern before it repeats 22:37 Walking away from misaligned connections 23:09 Choosing a partner who is emotionally available 23:35 Why this message matters now 23:46 A personal dating insight 24:00 Cleaning up unconscious energetic signatures 24:08 Recognizing the pattern before it happens 24:15 Who are you attracting right now? 24:23 Even the grocery store can bring surprises 24:38 Staying open without over-giving 24:44 Walking away from time-wasters 24:58 Stop tolerating less than you deserve 25:06 Sponsor shoutouts and gratitude 25:23 Clearing unavailability from your field 25:33 Rewriting your energetic signature 25:50 Aligning with the greatness of all 25:58 Welcoming in this activation 26:03 The power is in your hands 26:19 Time to take your energy back 26:28 Light it up, clear it out 26:34 You are divine — own your purpose 26:45 Closing words — be lit, inspired, and transformed 🛍 SPONSOR LOVE: 💗 Womanizer – redefining self-pleasure & divine feminine bliss (womanizer.com) 🌺 Christian’s Ethnobotanicals – pink lotus, blue lotus, and Amanita magic 🌿 Minnesota Nice – plant medicine & tinctures for soulful living 👉 https://minnesotaniceethnobotanicals.com 👇 LET’S ACTIVATE 👇 👍 Smash that like button if this hit home 💬 Comment: What pattern are you ready to break? 🔔 Subscribe for more real talk + soul wisdom ✨ Share with someone who needs this truth 💫 Go deeper into subconscious rewiring + soul embodiment: 📩 formationenergetix@gmail.com 🗓 https://formationenergetix.union.site/ 👁🗨 Join the community: The LIT Clique on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/groups/81134109686871160)